/Rant: Forming the Hammer of Ancient Drama

- Look at that really big, bright star!
- It wouldn’t seem that bright if it weren’t for all the other, smaller stars in the sky.
One of the biggest assets of a great leader is being able to keep everyone focused on the big picture. Keep their eyes on the prize. In addition to that, a great leader also needs to be able to differentiate which small things are worth focusing on and then, relay that to the followers. Leading a guild is no different.
While trying to maintain the big picture, however, we have to remember that people will get sidetracked, people will focus on the little things (especially if it pertains to them specifically), and people will bump heads – especially with you. A very good example of all of these potential problems has been brought to light all at once with the Fragments of Val’anyr (seems like the case in my guild anyway).
First of all, you need to collect 30 fragments, which drop randomly off Ulduar bosses in heroic mode, excluding Yogg-Saron who supposedly has a 100% drop rate. Then, you have to defeat Yogg with 1 Keeper up/absent/down/inactive. At the same time, you’ve probably got 6-7 healers jumping down your throat, each thinking s/he deserves it more than everyone else. It’s a legendary weapon; of course it’s not going to be easy.
The way our guild decided to do it was to give the first mace to the healer with the most accumulated lifetime DKP. We felt that this addressed 2 issues: attendance and flight risk (as Derevka eloquently put it). The third issue of “skill,” or as I like to see it, making sure the weapon goes to the person with the ability to use it to its fullest, is being dealt with as though it’s the same across the board. The politics that come with explaining that point and trying not to ruffle any feathers is not worth the effort.
Attendance
Accumulated DKP isn’t an accurate representation of someone’s attendance, as it fluctuates with people obtaining gear. Lifetime, however, allows you to see who has shown up the most, as they will have accumulated the most DKP. Who wants to give a legendary weapon to someone who shows up to one raid a week?
The person with most lifetime DKP also gives you confidence that s/he will continue to keep showing up to get all the fragments that drop instead of distributing it to the person next in line (although it’s probably bound to happen at some point).
Flight Risk
Most lifetime DKP earned doesn’t predict whether or not any specific person is going to stay with your guild well into the future but it sure makes you feel more confident the person will.
Here comes the rant:
The problems came crawling out of the woodwork when the first fragment dropped. I am the person first in line to get the weapon. Out came some misguided perceptions of favoritism -
- I am the GM’s girlfriend, which is probably the biggest factor.
- I am one of the guild’s founders.
- I am an officer and one of the co-GMs.
- I am the healing lead.
The healer who is 2nd in line thought it was going to be awarded to the person with the most current accumulated DKP. At the time the fragment dropped, I was still the healer in the lead. Ultimately, she felt the system was biased towards me. She’s been with us for almost a year.
The healer probably 3rd or 4th in line said to the GM, “If you just wanted to give it to her, just say so. Why are you beating around the bush to find some kind of round-about system to give it to her?” He’s been with us for only a few months.
I can understand the concerns about favoritism, with my position in the situation. I am a part of the decision-making body and being the GM’s girlfriend, people might assume I have infinite powers of persuasion to get the GM to sway in any direction I want. I love how everyone’s perception of the truth can be so conveniently tuned to what suits their agenda best.
I’ve been with this guild from Day 1 and I will be here until the end of the guild. I’ve had ample opportunities to transfer off to other servers to play with RL friends in further progressed guilds. I am dedicated to what I have been a part of building. I’ve never missed a raid unless work or some other real-life responsibility demanded my time. I am there when I say I will be there. Even if I didn’t feel like raiding, I was there.
My attendance is better than any of the other healers and most other raiders in general. I don’t pose any threat of a flight risk. On what grounds can someone justify that I shouldn’t be first to get the goddamn legendary that I am more than willing to give up if this is what I have to deal with if it weren’t for the fact that I already have a handful of fragments?!
I have vested far too much of my time and effort into this guild to be questioned by people who can’t focus on anything but who gets to be the first person to pick up the next shiny orange loot.
/endrant
TGIF!!! The baby murlocs are extremely happy you will be able to spend the weekend with them. : )